By Monica Wood │MWPR, Inc.
Up to now, all I have done is post examples of off-the-field mistakes and choices athletes have made, expressing my frustration in the headers. But, I really need to finally state for the record my total disgust at what seems to be epidemic in the NFL. Why is it that SO many players are continuing to make the same bad decisions over and over again?
Isn't this a fraternity of sorts? Where is the internal communication line between fellow players getting the word out that "player X" of "Y team" was just arrested...and screaming to the members..."brothers, we need to stop the maddness and focus on the game." There is a responsibility that should be placed on the players (fellow members of the fraternity) to help nip this thing. Come on....you don't have to make the same mistake that others have made....learn from them.
And, now my finger is pointing to the agents, PAs and PR folks....where are you? How is it that your clients are able to get so out of hand? Why isn't anyone sitting them down and talking about how important it is to keep their nose clean off-the-field? Give them the examples of other players that have fallen from grace and let them know that they are not special....it could easily happen to them. Where is the mentoring? Where is the consulting? Where is the assistance?
If nothing else will get their attention, the mighty dollar should. Let them know how much they stand to loose with one mistake. Pound into them the point of how hard it will be to regain trust and to polish their tarnished brand.
My passion has always been sports and making sure athletes, especially ones that look like me, are able to embrace all they can from the priviledged opportunity they have....playing professional sports. It is a job...not a game. Can you please start acting like it?
If not, you could possibly suffer the same fate as Quincy Wilson. Let it stop with him.
Coming soon: The Playbook
Wilson released by Bengals, RB was previously arrested
Associated Press

It is the second time in the past five days the Bengals released a player who had been arrested.
The second-year running back from West Virginia was arrested last June 17 in Huntington, W.Va., and charged with disorderly conduct for failing to disperse after a weekend wedding party. The Bengals waived him Monday.
Wilson was the 10th Bengals player arrested in a 14-month span.
The Bengals recently released wide receiver Chris Henry, another former West Virginia star, after he was arrested last week on an assault charge, his fifth arrest while he was with the team.
Copyright 2008 by The Associated Press